Saturday, February 12, 2011

Music: A Way of Life

This is an essay I wrote for my World Music class. It is a basically a direct comparison on how music in my life can relate to

the music of other cultures, namely South Indian and Balinese cultures.


Standing at full attention, I take in every move of the conductor--the tiny flick of her hands and the expression on her face. I can feel the members of the choir all around me. Their sound engulfs mine and seeks for a balance. Everyone is working toward the same goal of unity while trying to deliver the precision and expression that our director knows we are capable of. Loud and soft, strong and weak, we dip between notes. Then suddenly it happens. We start creating more than just notes on a page. In many ways it is quite etherial. “How many people get to experience this?” I wondered. The pure excitement and joy of producing something so beautiful. Music serves such a meaningful role, not just in America, but throughout the world. It draws people together, it helps them worship, it allows for great expression and it in essence sums up entire cultures. Noting the two previous examples given in regard to South Indian and Balinese music, it would be safe to conclude that our music, here in America, is influenced and developed much the same way as theirs. Through our history, religion and culture.

Seeing as it would take way to much time to discuss music as it relates to the entire culture, I will use personal experiences. First off, music is a way in which I have learned to be unified with others. Ever since I was little I have been singing in ensembles (note the example above)--ward choirs, school choirs, district and all-state choirs. I have had some very poignant experiences with each of these experiences but most influential in my life was the opportunity I had to sing with my sisters while growing up. Participating in a small ensemble with siblings definitely teaches you how to be unified and patient. We had to learn to blend with each other, be sensitive to each other and learn how to enjoy the time we spent singing together. Sometimes this was harder than others, but some of my most cherished memories of my childhood involve four girls gathered around our mother at the piano singing.

The second thing I would like to address is the fact that I am a music major. This is a unique position to be in. I spend everyday listening, learning and creating music. It isn’t just a part of my life anymore, it is my life. I think the greatest value to be gained from this unique position is appreciation. There are many types of music that I study that I do not enjoy listening to. I try to keep an open mind and I have learned that even some of the strangest things can be beautiful. I think of one particular moment in particular. I was in theory and my teacher was introducing a song to us. He showed us the lyrics to the song and then explained the type of word painting and composing that went into the piece. We then listened to it. Here was a song that I would definitely never chosen to listen to on my own, but now with the knowledge I have gained, I might consider singing it someday. Being a music major has taught me the value of looking a little deeper.

The third thing I would like to address is the value of religion as it relates to music. I have had so many moments in my life were music has touched me to the core. Music, in a way, is a very interwoven part of my testimony of the gospel and Jesus Christ. I can’t even count the many times I have been singing in church, listening to a musical number or some other recording and been moved to tears. Religious music, especially in the LDS culture, is very comparable to other religious music around the world. What makes it so meaningful to us is the context in which it is used. The words are sacred, but the context of the music is usually in a sacred setting as well.

Spring boarding off the previous idea, I think most music throughout the world is beautiful to us because it is what we are use to. Listening to a Balinese gamelan will probably never move me as much as listening to a religious text sung by a choir and vice versa. So, in many ways I think our musical preferences are developed and not necessarily hard-wired. This being said, I think that aspects of music are hard-wired in the human race in general. Sounds, techniques, settings and many other aspects of musical expression will vary from culture to culture but the important thing is that there is music in every culture. That is the universal aspect.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Dating at BYU

This topic has been one that I have wanted to write about for a long time. So, today, after reading an article in the daily universe, I thought I might as well share my opinion…just in case you cared. :D

First off, the dating scene at BYU drives me crazy. The reason: people take it too seriously. This may sound flippant, but I hope after some further explanation it will make sense.

As a couple girls in the daily universe article said, “You wonder, when a guy asks you out, ‘Are you asking me out because it’s expected? Are you interested or are you just dating to date?”Angela Lopez said she would rather not be asked out than go with a man who felt obligated.” Ok, so my reply to this is…get over it. Who cares if they are asking you out just to date. The point of dating is to get to know people. Why not go on the date, get to know someone new and make the best of the situation?

In the small town that I was raised in, dating was something you did for fun. I had friends to hang out with, but that same group of friends also planned group dates and switched off the girls that they dated every weekend or so. They dated for the pure fun of getting to know someone a little better than before. At BYU, I have too often come home from a first date and been asked by my caring roommates if they thought I could “see it going anywhere.” At first I didn’t think much of this question, but after some key observations I realized that this question revealed a view on dating that I have deemed unhealthy. I get frustrated when this is asked now, simply because I have no idea at this point if the young man I have only spent a few hours getting to know is right for me or not. For me, I am working on the friendship still. Sure I might find the person attractive and funny and who knows I may have even had a fantastic time, but experience has taught me that these things might be an indication of future potential, but just as likely they may not. Besides, why worry about something that shouldn’t be evaluated at this point anyway, just get to know the person.

I had a recent conversation with a guy that I know from class. He shocked me when he said that he hardly went on dates anymore. Of course, I couldn’t leave it at that I had to know why. He simply said that he would be interested in many girls at the same time and so go on dates with a number of them, only to be scolded by a few of them because they said he was leading them on. Oh…girls…stop thinking that if a man asks you on a date that he wants you as his eternal companion. Don’t jump to conclusions, just get to know the person and enjoy your time together. On a slightly related side note, I have seen many women, roommates, friends, classmates, tie themselves in knots because they don’t know if they like a guy who keeps asking them out. If you don’t know, don’t worry about it, just keep getting to know them.

The problem with dating at BYU is that we think too far ahead. We get anxious and worried about what is going to happen instead of just enjoying life. I have been guilty of this before and I still have to remind myself to be calm and less frantic. As I am constantly reminded by those dearest to me, life isn’t a race and I can’t force things to happen.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

I Like Life! Life Likes Me!

Today is a wonderful day! This is where everyone is suppose to chime in and say, "Why, Liza? Why do you find life so wonderful?" The answer is productivity, well that is part of the answer. So, there have been numerous things that I have been slacking on in the recent weeks. The slacking is mainly due to schoolwork. When the semester starts winding down and stress settles in, somethings get put on hold. Not the smartest idea, I know, but it happens. So, due to this effect I had not done laundry, bought groceries or organized my room for quite a while. (Don't judge me too harshly) So, yesterday I did all three. And why did I have time to do all the these wonderful things? Because I am done with the semester! That's right, my finals are complete and one more BYU semester is behind me.
Ok, now for reason number two as to why I am so happy. This is due to abundance. I have SO much to be grateful for. Even as a poor college student, I still have enough resources to keep me alive. I have good food to eat, a warm bed to sleep in and clothes to wear. I also have amazing roommates, friends and family that just add to the joy. I also get to study what I love most, music. Life is just so great.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Stormy Weather

Have you ever noticed how a cloudy day can affect everything. For me it usually makes me feel tired and makes every task (aka classes) seem like an impossible burden. Because of this, I have decided to write about all the positive things that rainy weather has to offer. So, here are the benefits that I am most enjoying:

- It smells wonderful! There really is nothing quite as grand as the smell of wet dirt and pavement, c’mon admit it.

- It makes me feel like wearing sweaters, which I quite enjoy doing by the way.


- It makes me feel like eating comfort foods. Some of my favorites are hot chocolate, ice cream, cheesecake and pumpkin pie. The best snack recently though…a pumpkin pie cheesecake shake at Sammy’s. SOOOOO GOOD!!!! (note it is made of the last three favorites…coincidence? I think not :D )


- I have heard, and maybe this is a rumor, that rain keeps the fall leaves on the trees longer…whether there is truth there or not, I am all for keeping fall colors around longer.


- and probably my most favorite reason for the weather is…it gets me in a Halloween mood. I LOVE Halloween!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

You’ve got to be true to yourself…

My mother gave me some very great advice today that I am going to try and implement in my life. She told me that I need to be true to who I really am. No more apologizing for my nerdy music jokes, or behavior. No more ‘trying’ to fit in by being bubbly and the life the party. Life is best lived and most enjoyable when I can simply be myself. Whew…that took a long time to reach that conclusion. So, here is to having the quiet, self-driven, slightly nerdy, non-life of the party, Eliza back!